ONLINE: Pandemic Pillow Talk

Connecting to yourself, your desires and the erotic world 


“Pandemic Pillow Talk had just the right amount of activity, break out discussion and input from the facilitators. Loved every minute of it!” - past participant


 How can we explore our sexuality, while staying 6 feet away from everyone?  Join us on Valentine’s day for a delicious exploration of the erotic realms of your body, mind and spirit.   

This online workshop is an expanded version of the original Pandemic Pillow Talk, which received rave reviews in an online Haven Symposium in May of last year:  


“Pandemic Pillow Talk was the best! Great, engaging activities and a nice balance of big and small group activities.” - past participant

“Solanna and Jay created a really engaging and experiential workshop that pushed my edge a bit...I learned a lot about myself and others.” - past participant 



Program Description: 

In this workshop, we’ll learn unique ways to tap into our desires, fantasies and capacity for pleasure.  All genders, orientations, and identities are welcome. Come solo or invite others - there will be opportunities for sharing and connection, as well as practices to cultivate self-love and pleasure. 

We’ll draw on group discussion, creative reflection and at-home embodied and experiential activities.  We will practice consent with ourselves and each other - all participation will be invitational and optional.  

Please join us for this intimate and inspiring day of pleasure and exploration! 

Read more about Solanna's experience in The Risk It Takes To Blossom: An Invitation to the Garden of Eros & Intimacy on our Shen Blog. 


"Solanna and Jay's workshop was personal, engaging (breakouts, clear direction, exploration, chat, etc.), and overall well done” - past participant



We will gather on Zoom for two, 2-hour sessions on Sunday, February 14th:  

  • Session 1: 10am-12pm PT  
  • Session 2: 2pm-4pm PT  
  • Informal Q&A (optional): 4pm-4:30pm PT  

Join us to reconnect and deepen your connection to yourself, your desires and the erotic world.

This workshop will be live and not recorded for viewing or access at a later date.  



Accessibility and inclusion are important to us. Please select a tier that fits your context:

  • $59 – Community
  • $79 – Standard
  • $99 – Supporter (helps others attend)

Each participant must be registered to join. Participants are welcome to share a screen if they are unable to sign in on individual devices or if they are in the same room. Being on 2 devices in proximity can create sound issues.  


Technical requirements:  

This online program will be hosted on Zoom, a video conferencing software that is free for participants and easy to use on a variety of devices. You will need to have a device (desktop computer or laptop recommended; tablet or smartphone can work too), reliable internet connection, and sound capabilities (headset recommended; built in or external microphone or speaker systems can work too). You will be invited to join the call up to 15 minutes early to receive technical support.